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4 Things You Should Control and 4 Things You Shouldn’t Control

Because we all love a bit of control, don’t we?

Leopard Lady
3 min readJul 26, 2021
Photo by Stephen Leonardi on Unsplash

One of the biggest problems of being human is the need for control.

Some people can even be called control freaks because they need to feel in control in every aspect of their lives all the time.

For them going with the flow only exists when they know every single aspect of the flow.

As a Virgo, I understand them very well because I love to have control over my life.

I love structure and routine and feeling like everything is under control. But life is about chaos, so quite the opposite, right?

The struggle is real because, for a matter of fact, there is very little that we can actually control in our lives.

In my 31 years of experience on Earth, I came to realise that we actually don’t have any control over our lives. What we have is a false sense of control. But still, there are some things we should control and others that we definitely shouldn’t try to control.

So here are 4 things we should control and 4 things we shouldn’t control:

4 things you should control

1. Your attitude

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Leopard Lady
Leopard Lady

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