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How To Have a Good Money Relationship With Your Partner
One of the reasons my marriage ended was money problems. Even if we were in a long term relationship, we were never on the same page regarding money. And I know I am the one to take the blame as well. He fucked and I fucked.
I don’t think we would still be together even if we didn’t have money problems, because there was much more going (really) bad, but if you and your partner only have problems in your money relationship, learning how to resolve it can save you.
But for you to understand how I can help you, let me first introduce my relationship with money:
It took me a long time to understand money.
Basically, if you have money and know how to use it things are going to be okay.
If you don’t have money, they probably won’t.
Most importantly, you have to have the money, but as important you need to know how to use it.
The most important lesson about money relationships is to learn how to manage your money to make it work for you.
Not long after meeting my ex-husband, I moved to my own flat (my parents bought it as an investment). I couldn’t afford to move there, even though it was mine and I didn’t need to pay rent. I was working two jobs, in a publishing house and as an…
