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How Your Bad Love Life Is Destroying Your Career
One of my first articles here was about my Dating Addition and how I recovered from it.
I am now in what I consider a healthy relationship, with someone I treat with respect and that also treats me with respect. We still have some issues, but we know how to deal and learn with them and move on to be better lovers to each other.
One of the things we love to do together is going for walks. And in all of these walks, we talk. A couple of weeks ago we had a conversation about how people that were in long and stable relationships were more successful than people who had lots of break-ups and multiple relationships.
Someone’s personal life and career life is very much related. If you have a bad day at home, you are not going to show your best at work. And if you have a bad day at work, you also, probably, are not going to show your best at home.
This is because we are just one human being, we can’t fragment our brains to have one part of it to deal with work issues and the other part to deal with personal life issues. We just can’t. We are whole for a reason, every area of our lives are connected and that’s a good thing…
