To All The People That Can’t Keep A Job Or A Relationship
We all know people that meet their partners at High School and have been with them since then (and apparently happy). We also all know people that got a job when they were interns, and now years later they are a manager for the same company (and apparently happy). We all know these people, but most of us are not them. Most of us can’t keep a job or a relationship.
I was never able to keep a job or a relationship. NEVER. So I am really curious about these people that can (if you are one of them, please write in the comments how you can do it).
You Are Failing At Building A Career And Having A Baby
These were the exact words of my ex-husband… I am still digesting them.
At the moment, I am in a new relationship, and we are over one year together (started officially dating on the 20th of July 2020); and I am also in a new job for almost one year (I will complete one year on the 9th of November 2021). And I have no idea of what could happen. I am hoping to start a family with my boyfriend and to be at my job for at least five years. But we never know what could happen.
There are many reasons someone can’t keep a job or a relationship, and I will list some of them that are related to my experiences:
You Can’t Keep A Job Or A Relationship: because you make the wrong choices.
I made so many wrong choices in my life, and I do try to believe that they all led me to where I am today because, in a way, they did.
I got married because I didn’t know what to do with my life, and it seemed the easiest solution, and I lost my dream job because I didn’t know how to deal with problems I had at the job, and instead of asking for help, being brave and courageous, I chickened out and started drinking alcohol. With the marriage, from day one, I knew it was the wrong decision, and with the job, from day one, I knew I needed a thicker skin to be there.