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What To Do, When You Don’t Know What To Do (How To Make Decisions in Life)
At many times in my life, I have found myself in this position. Confusion and doubts were the only things I knew. This is not my life any more.
Things are much clearer for me now and this is because I changed my approach regarding how to make decisions.
As a society, we are very much focused on the future.
Questions like where do you see yourself in the next 5 years or 10 years always frustrated me and before, I tried to answer them without success and I would feel like a failure.
How has everyone figured it out and I still don’t know what to do with my life?
I don’t care any more and shouldn’t you either.
Who cares where you are going to be in 5 to 10 years? What really matters is how you are living now.
The year 2020 has taught me that we don’t know what is going to happen in our lives, no matter how hard we try to control and plan it.
We only can do our best today and hope for a better future.
I have written before about the best advice from Oprah, and it’s to just take the next right step. When you don’t know what to do, just take the next right step, even if it’s a little one.
