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Why Things Work For Other People But Not For You?

And how to make things work for you

Leopard Lady
3 min readJun 15, 2021
Photo by Mahdi Dastmard on Unsplash

I know you are frustrated. I know because I am also frustrated. I have been dealing with frustration from a very young age. The feeling of wanting something, and no matter how hard you try, you don’t get it. Why can other people have what you want, and you can’t? What is wrong if you? What is wrong with me? I ask this to myself every single day.

It’s frustrating to see people having all the things you want to have. People are having romantic relationships, people are making lots of money, people are succeeding on social media, people are posting a perfect appearance online, and people are living their best lives. Why can they have all these things, and you can’t no matter how hard you try?

Why do other people have a partner, and you don’t?

I always sucked at romantic relationships.

I had one bad boyfriend after another until I met my worst nightmare, my ex-husband.

Our marriage almost killed me.

It was only when I started working on myself with therapy and learned what kind of person I need to be and deserved to be with that I found my…

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Leopard Lady
Leopard Lady

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